You learn a few things spending a week talking to people about the first time they masturbated; straight guys remember it well. Who could forget that first eruption and the sticky cleanup situation it left them in? Whether they spoke to their friends about rubbing one out or not, they were all continually reminded of it. The first boner, masturbation session, and the messy cleanup of young men are welcome comedy tropes. Even if you wanted to wipe the moment from your mind, Jason Bigg's face from American Pie wouldn't let you. But for some of us, the event is often less defined. Most of the women interviewed for this piece couldn't point to an exact event.
Lioness: Knowledge Is Power (And Pleasure)
Masturbation is one of those sex acts most people participate in regularly, but few discuss openly. Read these male and female masturbation stories from real guys and girls who got themselves off in the most epic manner possible. I came literally right as the road cleared up. For some time, nothing came out when I did it, but once I started producing semen, my bed became a really foul place. Happened every time I got to that scene. Fucking Jasmine. I definitely panicked…felt like a WWII air raid. It was unsettlingly awesome. I got so turned on by her assless chaps that I locked my bedroom door, and the rest is history. Back then, though, a good, fully clothed make out scene was all I needed.
We believe that sharing our experiences is a great way to foster conversation and work towards our goal of destigmatizing sexuality. So, naturally, we asked our community to tell us about their journey to masturbation. I was on the playground climbing a pole and it felt really good! I had no idea how it happened, but I obviously wanted to do it again. I had no idea what I was doing, or even what felt good to me. Eventually I began to feel the urge to take my pleasure into my own hands.
They say that even infants are often found stimulating themselves , knowing that it feels good, and not knowing why. While we're inclined to not really "count" that, probably most people remember the first time they realized what it was they were doing, and what they liked about it. Of course, like all sexual milestones, this is one that is probably a bit different for men and for women, but a lot of the emotions and feelings are the same. You may be excited, confused, or intrigued. And once you realized what it feels like to masturbate and what was happening, you were probably just looking for new ways to do it again and again. What was it like masturbating for the first time?